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Home » Diabetes » Mental Health » Diabetes, Self-Care and Self-Love

Christel OerumBy Christel Oerum on January 24, 2019, Updated March 19, 2020
Diabetes

Diabetes, Self-Care and Self-Love

How do you practice self-care and self-love as someone living with diabetes? I think doing so is incredibly important and a big component of living a healthy and happy life with diabetes.

Diabetes, Self-Care and Self-Love

Think of it like this:

You know those safety videos they show you on planes before takeoff where they talk about what you should do in case of a drop in cabin pressure? They tell you to “put on your oxygen mask first, then assist others.”

It makes sense, right? If you pass out from lack of oxygen, you can’t assist others. No one is better off in that situation. The same idea applies to your physical and mental health: you need to practice self-care and self-love to have the energy to love and care for others.

I find that most people (including myself) need this reminder once in a while. You cannot do everything for everyone else and nothing for yourself. The flame will fizzle, and you’ll burn out.

 

How to practice self-care with diabetes

As with any health journey, you have to decide what taking care of yourself means to you, and then set up a plan for achieving it. Although I can’t possibly know what’s important to you, I would encourage you to view self-care broader than diabetes care.

Yes, having an acceptable (to you and your medical team) A1c is important, and so is your daily diabetes management. But you are more than a person living with diabetes, and you definitely have needs other than blood sugar management.

So, let’s try to look beyond the diabetes and assess how to take good care of ourselves. I think taking this approach can ultimately lead to improved diabetes management as well.

You can start with a self-assessment. When do you feel the most at peace mentally and physically?

Maybe it’s when you have time to yourself every day (often the case if you’re introvert like me), when you have time to meditate, after a good laugh, when you exercise, when sleep enough… and the list goes on.

I encourage you to identify at least one thing that makes sense for you and then make a prioritized effort to incorporate that one thing into your everyday life.

If, for example, 10 minutes of solitude recharges you, why not close your eyes for that 0.7% of the day and then return to your busy life a happier, healthier you?

 

How to practice self-love with diabetes

I believe self-love falls under self-care, but it’s important enough that I want to talk about it separately.

It’s probably the one thing I’ve struggled with the most, and it’s still a work in progress for me. But just knowing that I’m too hard on myself is a good first step in actively doing something about it.

I think self-love (and I’m not talking narcissistic self-absorption) is critical because you ultimately have to be your own cheerleader. If you don’t build yourself up, and instead spend all your time tearing yourself down, how will you ever believe that you deserve self-care or the care and love of others?

Whenever you’re too hard on yourself, or you look in the mirror and say mean things to yourself, you’re tearing at your personal foundation. To be healthy, we must believe that we deserve health, that we deserve love, and that we are worthy.

Nothing positive will ever come from a thought process that goes like this: “I always fail; I never reach my goals.” So, what I often work on with myself and my clients is changing the mental narrative.

Examples can be:

  • The mirror is just a reflection; it doesn’t define who we are
  • A1C is just a number; it doesn’t define how hard we try
  • Today may not have been a good day, but that doesn’t mean we’re failing

I have written a post about Building Mental Strength with Positive Inner Talk that is a great place for you to start.

Practicing self-care and self-love in a way that supports your overall health may not come easily to you, so I encourage you to view it as something that will take a little time to get used to, just like any new routine. I promise you it’s worth the investment because it’s an investment in a healthier (and happier) you!

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Christel Oerum

About Christel Oerum

Christel is the founder of Diabetes Strong. She is a Certified Personal Trainer specializing in diabetes. As someone living with type 1 diabetes, Christel is particularly passionate about helping others with diabetes live active healthy lives. She’s a diabetes advocate, public speaker, and author of the popular diabetes book Fit With Diabetes.

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  1. AvatarCorlis says

    January 17, 2020 at 11:27 am

    Yes, self care is very important. I was the one always taking care of others until I got so sick with grief before making my mothers arrangements. It took me a many months to recover from that sickness. I know now I have to take care of myself also or I can not help others. My self care is losing weight, eating healthier most of the time, and exercising daily at least for 30 minutes. I am also actively looking for other activities I can participate in to improve my health. I am taking a Tia Chi class on Saturday mornings and looking for a good yoga class, I purchased the Muse meditation unit. I intent to travel again once my granddaughter has completed this last year of college and my husband retires. I also cook my own food instead of eating out all the time. I rarely food prepared at home, and last but not least I have reduced my stress level tremendously.
    Thank you for this article, this program, and to all that are living with this disease sharing your experience, strength, and hope.

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    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      January 17, 2020 at 7:09 pm

      I’m so glad you’re taking care of you. I really think that’s the only way we can stay “whole” and healty

      Reply
      • Avatarcorlis watkins says

        January 20, 2020 at 11:20 am

        You are so right.

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  2. Rachel ZinmanRachel Zinman says

    April 18, 2019 at 2:41 am

    Thanks for this beautiful reminder. In my past relationship I spent so much time pleasing my partner I didn’t even know what I needed to take care of myself. Since my diabetes diagnosis, I have been working on checking in with myself first before I do anything for anyone else.

    Reply
  3. AvatarPaula says

    October 7, 2017 at 8:22 pm

    The older I get, the harder it seems to be to hang onto good self esteem. It’s easy to look back and think about how I could have done better or left a better legacy here or there.

    I have been told I am my own worst enemy.

    Thank you for your efforts to help us all live better lives and become more whole.

    Reply
    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      October 7, 2017 at 9:46 pm

      Thank you for the note. It’s probably something we all will have to continue to work on. And I think, maybe, that I’ve heard the one about being my own worst enemy as well….

      Reply
  4. AvatarPatricia says

    October 7, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    This was great for me to hear. Today was one of those days with lows and highs. Very frustrated but reading this post helps me know I am not alone in my struggle with DM and life goes beyond DM.

    Thanks all

    Reply
    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      October 7, 2017 at 9:44 pm

      You’re are not alone! I’m glad posts like this can help

      Reply
  5. AvatarAllana says

    October 7, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    Thankyou for this. I have been working on a quote this year that says: dont forget to fall in love with yourself first. what does this mean personally to myself.? Physically i think im going well with it, but its a bit tougher mentally. i can see an improvement overall which is the main thing.

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    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      October 7, 2017 at 7:46 pm

      It’s definitely a process, but from your message, it sounds like you’re already making a dedicated effort. Progress is progress, well done

      Reply
  6. AvatarSarah says

    October 7, 2017 at 11:24 am

    Thank you for taking the time to write your posts. I am diabetic, epileptic and now have skin cancer. So it’s good to hear positive things. Onwards and upwards!!! If I ever catch a disease which stops me from having a good sense of humour.. is .onwards and upwards!!! As my Irish grandmother used to say, “whatever’s going on, tis better ta be over it than under it, so it is!”

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    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      October 7, 2017 at 5:21 pm

      Thank you for that – yes Onwards and Upwards!

      Reply
  7. Avatarkevin says

    October 7, 2017 at 8:13 am

    Thank you for this, it reminds me I am too hard on myself. I love the examples, they are spot on and very inspirational!!

    Reply
    • Christel OerumChristel Oerum says

      October 7, 2017 at 5:23 pm

      It is REALLY hard not to judge yourself all the time when we get feedback on “how we’re doing” 24/7. But making that shift from seeing every BG reading as judgement and seeing it as data has helped me a lot. And as I write, I’m very much a work in progress myself

      Reply

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