Have you been dieting for what seems like forever without seeing the results you’re hoping for? Maybe you’re even gaining weight and you’re frustrated, tired, and about ready to throw in the towel.
You may be asking yourself: Why am I gaining weight when I barely eat?
Could this be due to the way you have been dieting? Could the calorie restriction actually be backfiring and making you gain weight?
The short answer is: probably not. But we humans are complex creatures and a lot of factors can impact our weight and overall well-being. So let’s dive into how you achieve the weight loss you’re hoping for and what could be hindering your progress.
What the science says
When it comes to weight loss, the science is clear that any approach that puts you in a calorie deficit will make you lose weight.
A calorie deficit means that you consume fewer calories from food and drink than your body uses to keep you alive and active.
This makes sense because it’s a fundamental law of thermodynamics:
- If we add more energy than we expend, we gain weight.
- If we add less energy than we expend, we lose weight.
But this is where the simplicity ends.
How many calories you’ll need to achieve a deficit is highly individual and will change over time as you age, your activity level changes, your metabolism changes, and your body fat percentage changes.
You can calculate your daily calorie needs using this formula, but this should only be seen as a starting point as the calculation can never take into consideration exactly how effective your metabolism is.
To find out why you aren’t losing weight, we need to look at some of the factors that can affect your metabolism
Can eating too few calories decrease your metabolism?
The body is a very intelligent machine in the sense that it knows how to effectively regulate its many processes to support homeostasis (keeping a constant weight).
In the context of dieting and weight loss, this means that if you restrict your food intake too drastically, your body will simply decrease its metabolic rate so it is burning fewer calories.
Of course, if your body begins to burn fewer calories each day, then it is going to be far more difficult for you to lose weight, but the problem is even greater than that.
If you aren’t providing your body with the energy it needs to fuel your daily activities, then it will have to begin sourcing it from somewhere else. You might be thinking the first place it will look is your stored body fat, but it will also begin breaking down your lean muscle mass so it can be converted to glucose and burned for energy.
This result is a snowball effect, where you are holding less muscle, meaning your metabolism begins to dwindle even further.
A study of contestants from the TV show The Biggest Loser was that if you have achieved dramatic weight loss very quickly, you may find that you now have to eat significantly lower calories than your peers to even maintain your weight.
If you decide to cut calories, never do it too quickly. When you first start dieting to lose weight, the best thing to do is to cut around 300-500 calories daily from your regular diet, or your ‘maintenance calories’.
Cutting just a few hundred calories each day will enable you to lose somewhere in the region of 1 – 3 lbs per week, which is just about right to make sure you are predominantly losing fat and not muscle.
If your weight loss stalls for a week or two, then you can simply cut another couple of hundred calories or consider adding a little extra exercise.
Tracking your calorie intake for weight loss
Unfortunately, most people who are trying to lose weight underestimate how many calories they eat daily. When we look at scientific studies, they find that 18 to 54% of people underreport how much they eat, and in some subgroups underreporting is as high as 70%.
This doesn’t mean that people are lying, but more likely that it is very hard to estimate food intake, especially if you didn’t cook the food yourself.
One way of assessing if you’re measuring your food accurately is to use a food scale to measure your food and keep an electronic food diary such as MyFitnessPal or CalorieKing. I recommend using a food scale rather than cups and spoons as it’s more accurate.
Another pitfall when it comes to estimating calorie intake is that some people will be very restrictive during the week and then “let go” and not track or pay attention during the weekends. I’m personally all for a relaxed approach to dieting but if you end up significantly overeating during the weekend, you might essentially end up no longer in a calorie deficit overall.
Other reasons you might not be losing weight while dieting
There are several reasons why people struggle to lose weight. Tackling the underlying issue can be what you need to reach your weight goals.
Some conditions and drugs can make you gain weight
Some conditions including Cushing’s disease, polycystic ovary syndrome, and hypothyroidism can make you gain weight or make it very difficult to lose weight.
If you’re experiencing unexplained weight gain or have struggled with these before it’s worth discussing the issue with your doctor and maybe have your medication adjusted.
Drugs such as steroids and some antidepressants may also cause weight gain. Don’t stop taking your medications but discuss doses or alternatives with your medical team.
You’re dieting, but not for weight loss
Dieting and eating less is in reality very subjective. Dieting for some means only eating whole foods, cutting out specific food groups, or no snacks or sweets, eating a meal less than they’re used to, intermittent fasting, calorie restrictions, and the list goes on.
But the thing is that you can be doing any of those things and still not lose weight if you’re not in a calorie deficit.
Reducing your calories has also been shown to lead to people being less active. Remember, a calorie balance is a balance of how many calories your body needs and how many you consume, so a significant reduction in your activity could tip the scale and halt your weight loss.
It simply takes time
Another common reason why people report not losing weight despite reducing their calories is that they don’t give it enough time. Our bodies will do their utmost to hold on to our fat reserves and you often have to be in a calorie deficit for a while before you will see any meaningful weight loss.
You might see an initial large drop in your weight the first week, but that’s most likely water and waste and you can’t expect to see that type of weight drop week over week.
Lack of sleep
Aside from time, another factor that could be impacting you is your sleep patterns. Sleep deprivation is often tied to higher BMI, although the exact correlation is unclear.
Why undereating could be hurting your health!
If you do decide to continue eating very few calories, you should know that there’s a chance that you’re putting your health at risk.
When your body goes into starvation mode, you are at increased risk of both physical and mental complications, including
- Abnormally low blood pressure and slow heart rate
- Heart rhythm abnormalities
- Hair loss
- Brittle fingernails
- Loss of menstrual periods in women
- Dizziness
- Trouble concentrating
- Anemia
- Swelling in your joints
- Brittle bones
- Depression
Undereating can also often lead to an unhealthy relationship with food, obsessively thinking about food, and potentially eating disorders.
If you find that you’re still not losing weight despite being in what you perceive as a calorie deficit while measuring out everything you eat and drink, you should:
- Check in with your medical team for your annual physical and mention your weight loss journey
- Increase your activity to increase your calorie deficit
- Get enough sleep and reduce your stress levels to the best of your ability
Katie
I’m 47 and have no problem skipping meals and don’t need to count calories to know I’m in a good place, but when I have counted, I’m at a calorie deficit.
By my early 20’s, I had gained about 50 lbs and weighed roughly 200 lbs and stood at 5’4. I tried a super restrictive diet of lettuce and broth totaling 100 calories a day and exercised but didn’t lose any weight. I was later diagnosed with PCOS. I lost about 20 lbs taking Metformin.
For the next twenty or so years, I’ve had limited caloric intake intentionally: to prevent further weight gain.
I’ve been stuck at 230 for the last nine years. Skipping meals and controlling portions have done nothing for me. Last summer, I decided to focus on calories in/ calories out. My caloric intake was 560 calories a day from 2 protein shakes. I’ve always drank tons of water. I don’t experience hunger. I did 120 minutes of cardio/ 5 days a week, keeping my heart rate at 147 bpm and sweating profusely. After four weeks, I had lost 0 pounds. Not a typo. Zero. I lost nothing. Hurt and angry, I gave up.
Did I surrender too soon? What have I done wrong?
Signed,
“Hurt and suffering for 40 years because my body doesn’t reflect my food intake”
Christel Oerum
You have every right to be frustrated! Something is clearly going on, and you might not be able to solve it on your own. The PCOS could be impacting you and maybe there’s something else going on from a metabolic perspective. You might want to discuss it with your doctor, get the right blood work done, and depending on the results discuss an action plan with your medical team
Zoei L Hutcherson
Hello I used to weight 263 lbs. Now Im 180-185 though I’ve been at the same weight for 5 months and my old tricks no longer work. I do lift heavier weights now I’m not loosing weight. If I eat at the “regular” amount of 1600 -1800 I can literally see my body gain and not in muscle. Verses me eating 1400 or less. I workout 5 to 6 times a week sometimes doubles HIIT and weight strength training. I eat right protein, veggies, fruits. Though nothing. What am I doing wrong?? Right now I was told I’m eating to little and to eat more 1600 – 1800 calories to help lift heavier though my face looks rounder, and my side fat is back!!!
Christel Oerum
That sounds really frustrating! It’s impossible for me to know what’s going on but if you can I’d recommend getting a physical to confirm if all of your hormone levels are where they should be and work with a registered dietitian who understands how to support your fitness goals
Corinne
I find it interesting, most people’s comments will be similar to mine. I have tried the gentle sustainable method. I’m active for my job and mountain bike 3 to 5 times a week. Lift weights twice a week. And lift heavier (50-80lbs) at my part time job. Fitbit claims 1800 to 2200 cals burned a day. I eat 1500 to 1600 mainly veggies and meats some sweet potatoes or breakfast oats. Never drop below my set point of now 155. Used to be 142 in 30s and was 132 set in my 20s. Now approaching 50 nothing works. Im stuck and climbing over 155. Can only slowly lose at 800-1200 calories same activity level. I don’t drink anything but water. Get 7to8hrs. All blood work normal. No real stress in life. Very amusing the calories in calories out camp. I’ve always been an efficient calorie user. While others lived on 2400 cals a day, drank alcohol and were lean I had to be on 1800 a day. And work out daily. At this point I am convinced it’s not straight forward. And doctors just think the efficient people are lying about their calorie intake or activity. And if metabolism”stalls”, I’ve never seen anyone get clear method to start it up again. I will say I’ve given up trying the “healthy” way because it doesn’t work for me.
Steve
Hi Corrine,
There are many contributing factors to your weight and size and while it seems that you have a few of them covered, there are obviously some which you have not. Here are a few of the most common contributing factors;
Age: muscle tone diminishes after age 35 which slows metabolism.
Exercise: mix it up -add some plyometrics – your body may be used to your workout.
Activity level: swim, walk, take the stairs, mow the lawn, take up a sport, etc.
Fruit juice: classed as a simple carb and some fruits have exceptionally high fructose levels and should only be used in moderation.
Hydration: leave out exotic waters like coconut water.
Sleep pattern: Genetic disposition: Hormone deficiency: etc…..
The list of contributing factors is really long and generalizations are not normally helpful – weight control is personal and you may find a visit to your local dietitian may be helpful.
Aria
Hello!
Recovering from an extreme weight loss and extreme undereating.. I have noticed that although I am still exercising a ton burning almost 1500 calories a day and eating 1000, I am gaining weight. Could this be because my metabolism had slowed down? I was originally 5’7 145 pounds and a collegiate athlete and dropped to 125 in a month or so. Now eating more as I was only eating 500-600 calories a day, I feel like I should still be losing weight as even though I’m eating more, I’m still burning so much more. Any help??
Christel Oerum
Oh, no! That’s frustrating.
I’ve found the research on extreme weightloss to be somewhat limited. However, it does seem that extreme weightloss (like we saw on the TV show the Biggest Loser) leads to a decline in people’s BMR (basal metabolic rate). If you can I’d suggest you work with a dietitian to try and get you back to a sustainable calorie level. If you’re on your own, you can try increasing your calories slowly and see if that makes a difference
Cynthia
Hello,
I just started a calorie count, I’m not sure if I’m doing it correctly. I’ve been doing it about 3 months & I’ve only lost 10 lbs. I’m 5ft & I’m on 1200 calorie count. I haven’t lost too much. Please help!
Christel Oerum
I’d say 10 lbs/ in 3 months is excellent, great job! Generally, it’s not recommended that you lose more than 0.5-1 lbs. per week
Salma
I have trying to loose 25 lbs. I workout 3-4 times a week and burn around 300 calories. I try and eat in deficit around 1200. I currently weigh 150 and I am 5’5”. I drink water 5-6 glasses a day. Not even loosing a pound a week. What am doing wrong and what can I do to loose 1-2 lbs a week?
Christel Oerum
You need to stay in a calorie deficit for some time. If you after a few weeks don’t see any progress, it’s time to change things up. A suggestion could be to focus on other factors than weight, such as how your clothes feel, as weight in itself can be deceiving when it comes to measuring progress.
Nicole
I’ve been practicing intermittent fasting about few months already however up until now there’s no changes in my body. In addition it seems like I gained weight and my body size ended up bigger than usual. What should I do? (I also practice calorie deficit *not quite sure bec I don’t know if sometime I ate so low or ear in surplus*) what should I do?
Christel Oerum
Intermittent fasting in itself won’t impact your body fat percentage significantly unless you’re in a calorie deficit. Other factors than a calorie surplus, that can make your weight go up are water retention, constipation, or illness/hormone imbalance.
If none of those are other issues are relevant for you, you might not be in a calorie deficit. If you have been dieting aggressively for a long time, you could try taking a 2-4 weeks diet break and then start again
Femke
Hey hello I have been losing weight in the beginning but now I just start gaining it back even though I still eat healthy and burn what I eat and burn even more I dont know what to do because I haven’t reached my goal yet if someone has advice please tell me
Christel Oerum
If you’re still in a calorie deficit (and you don’t have any underlying conditions halting your progress) the only way you’ll gain weight is through muscle, water, or waste gain.
Remember weight loss takes time and it’s not linear
Cosette
It’s so hard to identify if I’m eating enough or not! I try to eat 5 meals of around 350 calories each (give or take) and do try to eat if I feel hungry (not just emotional). I’ll lose 1-2 pounds and just really fluctuate around 135-140 seemingly no matter what I do. I walk 1-2 hours per day, try my best to drink 100 oz of water. How do I tell if I am overeating or undereating when I eat about the same daily and still sit in a range of 5 lbs? (trying to get to 120).
I’ve tried fasting for 1-2 meals to see if I’m eating to much and I feel lean the next day, but then nothing happens or my weight increases.
If I eat more than what I am giving myself, I just feel like I’m eating too much and feel full. And I gain weight.
Ugh! How do I tell which one it is?
Christel Oerum
Weight fluctuations are very normal for most people. Often when we talk significant undereating people are consuming less than 1200 calories a day. Based on what you write, but without knowing you, it doesn’t come across as significant undereating. You might benefit from working with a nutritionist for a while if you have access to one
Anna S
Hi Cosette,
Personally, I think that you might be overeating and not getting enough cardio exercise. I am a registered nurse so I am not a dietitian or a weight loss coach. This is just my opinion based on personal experience in the weight loss. I’d like to stay around 115 pounds, but, time to time, I let myself get lazy by eating too much, not exercising and ending up gaining weight. Then I go on my weight loss plan, which I have done a few times,, and get to my regular size. My go to formula for the weight-loss is eating just about 1200 cal a day, low-fat, less than 20 g. I’m sticking to a regular cardio routine, which is usually 45min to 1hour on the elliptical 5-6 days a week . Getting my heart rate into the fat burning zone and sweating up a storm are essential elements for my weight loss.
I just wanted to share my experience. You will get there! Keep us posted!
Anna
Diana Malas
Are you staying at 1200 forever? Or until you reach you goal? And then you reverse diet?
Kate
Hello,
I have been on a weight loss journey since last year, I’ve gone from 186lb to 137lb and my target is 125lb. I eat between 1000-1200 calories a day and do exercise between 500-1100 calories a day but I’m struggling to lose weight? Am I not eating enough? I have a healthy diet food wise x
Christel Oerum
You can’t live in a calorie deficit or on a constant weight loss journey. Sounds like you’ve come very far, 50 lbs. is a massive achievement. Maybe give yourself a break for a few weeks or months where you dial back on the exercise or up your calories. I’ve found that those “diet breaks” can be very helpful for breaking through plateaus
Eric
Cut out the Cardio and switch to strength training!!!